But what’s even more troubling is that since then, I’ve come to notice more and more white girls acting this way. ” News Flash: Just because you’re white doesn’t mean I wanna jump your bones. I honestly can not express how thankful I am to the Black Women who have been making Youtube Videos, posting on forums, writing blogs, and supporting the Facebook groups that are dedicated towards Asian men and AMBWs. Now, I’m no Sam Milby but all I gotta say is “WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?! If a gorilla punched a sack of potatoes and just so happened to make a smiley face, you would probably be presented with an accurate portrait of this White Chick’s face. “If you’re an ugly white chick with a fetish for Asian guys, you can’t expect to pick the ripest of our fruit”?And it’s for the family and friends of widow(er)s; for potential new partners; and for happily married couples who’ve not had the pain of “til death do us part”. I think one of the hardest things about dating as a widow(er) is the guilt that comes along with it.Worse is that some of the guilt comes from other people—and is sometimes laced with a bit of shame for good measure.Matched, had a brief conversation, asked for my number and I gave it to him.
But it’s also for the widow(er)s who may need encouragement to carry on.
In our society, those who are perceived as “gorgeous” (by the media’s standards) are often believed to be above the status quo.
There’s this ideology that if you’re beautiful, you’re better than everyone and have no need to talk to us looking folks.
Yes, I’m sure there are cocky black women out there who are like this, but based off the ones I’ve met and the ones in support of AMBW, I gotta say…
In a lot of ways our computers, video games, and homework have all been a great distraction for us Asian Men.